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IS IT ONE MORE BORING BLOG?

I am writing this blog to remind myself how the query processing work. It is a forgettable item because it is different from the way you write a query. To begin with let me write a simple query.

Select * from AdventureWorks2012.Person.Person

SIMPLE ANALYSIS

We have 3 elements in this simple query. First is the keyword “SELECT”. This keyword means you are retrieving data from the table (as oppose to inserting or updating data in a table). A Second element is “*” which denotes the list of columns in a table. The third element is the “FROM” clause which tells you to retrieve data from a particular table.

When SQL Server Query Optimizer receives this query it processes it in a logical order instead of a physical order. Most logical and cost-effective thing is to first check if the table exists or not. So the “FROM” clause will be processed first. Next, it checks for columns requested also exist or not. If a table exists and the columns requested also exist then Query Optimizer looks at “SELECT” keyword and retrieves the data for you.

Look at the direction of a blue arrow in the execution plan of this query. It shows, that Query Optimizer scans the table first (using the FROM clause) and then do the SELECT.

Logical query processing 1

This is how the flow diagram will look

Flow Diagram 1

Flow Diagram 1

Let’s add some more spice to this query.

Select * from AdventureWorks2012.Person.Person where Lastname = ‘Ford’

This query returns only 3 rows. “WHERE” clause in the query is filtering the table data on Lastname column. Query optimizer first checks the physical objects (tables and columns) exist and then see the filter and uses the index if there is one on the filtering column. Note the key_lookup operator in the below execution plan.  The reason is that the Non-Clustered index chosen in the Seek operation is not the covering index (remember we are using * ). In that case clustered index of the table is used to point to the data which generates key_lookup operator. It is an important consideration when you are doing query tuning. But for our purpose here it is not important. Another point to note is the size of arrows. Arrows are thin in this execution plan because the query is returning only 3 rows compared to previous plan where the query was returning about 20K rows.

Logical Query Processing 2

Logical Query Processing 2

Flow Diagram 2

Flow Diagram 2

Next Step:

Having a clear concept of how the query is logically processed will help you write more efficient and Optimizer friendly queries. In my next blog, I will take the learning done here and extend it to other query clauses such as GROUP BY and ORDER BY.

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Yesterday I attend this session after work and took some notes. Sian is a great presenter and possesses wealth of information.

Topic: How Mind Works Under Stress

Presenter: Sian Beilock (Author of books Choke, How the body knows the mind)

Venue: Heller Auditorium Francis Parker School.

Notes

What happens when we fail to reach our potential? Do we feel like we are choking under the pressure? Why we fail to perform under pressure? Sian’s research is about finding techniques to overcome this choking effect and perform better.

Frontal cortex, front part of brain, is much bigger in humans than any other primates. It defines us as humans. This defines what we are capable of. FC communicates with other parts of the brain. Under stress FC stops this communication and results in weird consequences. During stressful situations, FC goes haywire but it does that in a predictable way. We have to find that pattern; Paralysis by Analysis.

What happens under stress situation is that we second guess our ability and pay detail attention to things that should be on autopilot. We become very conscious of ourselves. We start breaking down the details of our skills. Focusing on the outcome instead will give better results. All we want to do is sail rather than fail.

A Study was done at Cornell University with medical students. They divided the group of medical students of the same age and level into 2 groups. One who is preparing to take their board exams and one not. They measured the brain activities showing how the brain gets ready for board exam compared with other people not having exam. What changes in the brain? Study showed people who were excessively worried about the exam performed bad at critical thinking problems. Study also concludes that stress in one area of life effects other parts of the lives.

Now let us talk about what can we do help our brain perform at its peak.

  • People are more likely to get the answers if they walk away from the difficult problem for a while. This is taking a step back and view the problem differently. Mind resets and you get the connection back.
  • Sleep is an important for our life. Mind does not stop working even when we are sleeping but it works on its on things. It makes new connections from the information we gathered in our waking hours.
  • Talking out your problems to someone who does not know the answer will also help you solve the problem on your own.
  • Our emotions also messes with Frontal Cortex’s functions. When we are under pressure, FC does not keep the negative emotions away and gets us. In teens, FC is under developed, it completes in 20s.

fMRI, Functional MRI (Magnetic resonance Imaging) is one way of testing brain activities. It shows functioning of brain in real time. People who are nervous about Math problems were told they are going to solve a math problem. The part of brain that lights up when we are physically harmed lighted up for these people who were fearing Math problems. To them anticipating Math was as painful as they have been pricked by a needle. This is caused by lack of blood supply to Neurons in the brain. If you tell them ahead about the problem, fear shuts down FC and they don’t perform better.

What can we do about this negativity? Every time negative emotion comes, practice changing it with one thing that you can change. The practice is important. Behavior will change gradually. How we think about ourselves matters very much. If we think we are better at something, chances are we will do better in that in that task. Asian girls did better on Math problems when they thought they are Asian and therefore better at Math than when they thought they are girls and therefore not good at Math.

  • Taking walks in nature is beneficial for brain and helps focus our attention. Even looking at pictures of nature will give some of the benefits.
  • Practice being in the stressful situation and when actual stressful condition happens you are more ready to cope and perform better in it. Simulating the actual situation will help.
  • Your body language send other messages weather you are ready or not. It also gives message to your own brain. So keeping your posture upright also keeps away negative emotions.
  • Journaling is best way to get the negativity out. This opportunity to download you thoughts on paper helps you give perspective.

 10-07-2015 

Brief Recap of the session:

This technical briefing’s main objective was to demonstrate the latest and greatest features of SQL Server 2016 and how running it on SanDisk hardware multiplies the benefits of new features.

This demo was conducted in Microsoft Technology Center in Chicago and was jointly presented by Microsoft and SanDisk representatives. It was a 300-level advanced preview of the hardware and software without any sales pitch.

Their Fusion IoMemory card goes directly in the PCI slot on the server’s motherboard and they have parity NAND chips on that card for fault tolerance. Price went down considerably for the same product since the April 2015 for two reasons. First their Shanghai, Chaina NAND chip manufacture has become more efficient in producing high quality chips and secondly partnership with Microsoft and other hardware vendors such as Dell and HP.

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These are some of the numbers we get with SanDisk flash when tables are stored as normal (i.e; on Sandisk without using columnstore feature of SQL Server).

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SQL server 2016 has opened the clogged artery meaning flash drive performance is out of the charts. They were talking in terms of IOPS, throughput and latency. Now SQL server 2016 (compared to sql server 2014) using Sandisk or any flash drive can deliver IOPS in millions, Throughput in GBs and latencies in microseconds. The enhancement is due to the improved ColumnStore feature in SQL Server 2016. IO bottleneck for OLTP or OLAP load almost vanishes.

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These improvements directly affects the HA and DR environments. For example Always on Availability Group. Log transfer from one database to another, on the secondary, is much faster because of separating the redo process at the secondary server. AG, in synchronized mode, waits for the confirmation from the secondary server. Before sql server 2016, a record has to be written to the disk on the secondary and applied to the database before confirmation is sent to the Primary node. Now confirmation is sent as soon as the records is written to the disk. Redo process than run in the background at secondary server to apply the changes to the database. SQL 2016 AG now have load balancing feature included.

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Another benefit is cost savings in SQL server license. Because most of the time sql load is IO bound and CPU hardly goes above 25% on average. These flash drives will make CPU work for what they are worth. So only 2 CPUs are needed for server load as big as 10 TB Datawarehouse.

My impressions:

Since our databases are not even 1 TB, the whole critical databases in production can be stored on these flash drives. Or we can have our log files and tempdb files on flash drives. There are lot of options. And when these cards are purchased with VM vendors, there is warranty included which replaces these cards when it fails without cost to us.

They also have caching feature, I think this a separate software based product that needed to be purchased separately and maybe useful for application level processes to run faster.

Another point is that we are skipping upgrade to SQL server 2014 so we are naturally going to upgrade to SQL server 2016 in year 2017. I think we can plan in 2016 for testing and purchasing these flash drives.

Additionally, these will also make our HA and DR very reliable in terms of failover.

In my opinion, we can take advantage of flash drives for production load in our VMs when we upgrade SQL Server to 2016.

FileStream directory

The file stream network path technically is this \\SQL Server name\Network Share Name\Database File stream Directory Name\<File Table Name>

  1. SQL Server Name – (starting with \\)
  2. Windows Share Name – It is visible in SQL Server Configuration tool -> SQL Server properties -> FileStream tab.
  3. Database File stream Directory Name – It can be seen in Database Properties -> Options -> FILESTREAM Directory Name
  4. The last part is the file table name.

Some helpful FileStream queries

Exploration Queries:

SELECT DB_NAME(database_id) AS DatabaseName,non_transacted_access_desc, directory_name  FROM sys.database_filestream_options WHERE directory_name IS NOT NULL

SELECT directory_name,is_enabled,filename_collation_name FROM sys.filetables;

SELECT * FROM sys.tables WHERE is_filetable = 1

SELECT object_id, OBJECT_NAME(object_id) AS ‘Object Names’    FROM sys.filetable_system_defined_objects

— To get the root level UNC path of a file table

SELECT FileTableRootPath()

SELECT FileTableRootPath(N’file_table_name’)

Enable Disable Queries:

https://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/gg492061.aspx#HowToDisable

— Disable Non-Transactional write access.

ALTER DATABASE database_name

SET FILESTREAM ( NON_TRANSACTED_ACCESS = READ_ONLY );

— Disable non-transactional access.

ALTER DATABASE database_name     SET FILESTREAM ( NON_TRANSACTED_ACCESS = OFF );

— Enable full non-transactional Access

ALTER DATABASE database_name     SET FILESTREAM ( NON_TRANSACTED_ACCESS = FULL );

Find locks held by filestream queries:

Open handles to the files stored in a FileTable can prevent the exclusive access that is required for certain administrative tasks. To enable urgent tasks, you may have to kill open file handles associated with one or more FileTables.

SELECT * FROM sys.dm_filestream_non_transacted_handles;

— To identify open files and the associated locks

SELECT opened_file_name    FROM sys.dm_filestream_non_transacted_handles

WHERE fcb_id IN        ( SELECT request_owner_id FROM sys.dm_tran_locks );

— Kill all open handles in all the filetables in the database.

EXEC sp_kill_filestream_non_transacted_handles;

— Kill all open handles in a single filetable.

EXEC sp_kill_filestream_non_transacted_handles @table_name = ‘filetable_name’;

— Kill a single handle.

EXEC sp_kill_filestream_non_transacted_handles @handle_id = integer_handle_id;

Code Re-usability:

— Use the relative path for portable code

https://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/gg492087(v=sql.110).aspx

DECLARE @root nvarchar(100);

DECLARE @fullpath nvarchar(1000);

SELECT @root = FileTableRootPath();

SELECT @fullpath = @root + file_stream.GetFileNamespacePath() FROM EDMS

WHERE name = N’document_name’;

PRINT @fullpath;

How FileStream works with some of the High Availability Features of SQL Server 2012?

 AlwaysOn Availability Groups and FileTables

https://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/gg492086.aspx#alwayson

When the database that contains FILESTREAM or FileTable data belongs to an AlwaysOn availability group:

  • FileTable functionality is partially supported by AlwaysOn Availability Groups. After a failover, FileTable data is accessible on the primary replica, but FileTable data is not accessible on readable secondary replicas.
  • The FILESTREAM and FileTable functions accept or return virtual network names (VNNs) instead of computer names.
  • All access to FILESTREAM or FileTable data through the file system APIs should use VNNs instead of computer names.

Replication and FileTables

Replication and related features (including transactional replication, merge replication, change data capture, and change tracking) are not supported with FileTables.

In my second post regarding R and statistics, I am going to describe my registering for online classes. See here for Part 1.

First, I registered on Coursera.org for a class named “R Programming”. This is a part of a Data Science Specialization and is offered by JHU. This will begin on August 3rd. The other online course is from EdX.org and it is self-paced and is called “Explore Statistics with R”. The class already started on July 7th but I just joined it today. It will end on August 31st. Hopefully, I will catch up.

Among these 2 classes and the R study group that I mentioned in my last post, I think it will give me very broad and somewhat deep understanding of how to use statistics with R application to solve real life problems. I will be also be attending other complimentary user groups such as ChicagoCityData which explores city’s datasets such as https://data.cityofchicago.org/. It has datasets such as landlord’s list, Police stations, crimes – 2001 to present and other such interesting ones.

Now let me explain more about the courses that I am taking and how it is going to help me in reaching my goal. But wait! What is my goal? What do I want to achieve by going through all this trouble of learning R, statistics and user groups?

As a Senior SQL Server Database Administrator, I am very familiar with data, datatypes, storage, performance, optimization etc. But 20 years ago I graduated as an Electrical Engineer and Statistics and Mathematics were my two favorite subjects. And since becoming a DBA 14 years ago, I did not get to use these 2 areas much. Learning R is just like learning any other programming language, such as TSQL, which I am pretty familiar with. I am somewhat familiar with scripting language “Powershell” also. But learning both together, R and Statistics, and applying them to solve practical issues is my dream come true scenario. Currently I am working with SQL Server 2012 version. SQL Server 2014 is out there and SQL Server 2016 will be out next year. With 2016 version, Microsoft is tightly integrating R Studio functionality. So now Data Scientist do not have to wait to get their big datasets and then work on the analysis. They can do it right on the SQL Server. How much performance hit it will be is yet to be seen. So you can see my motivation here. I am not going to leave the world of SQL Server because I fell in love with it and I would like to fall in love with R and statistics too. I would like to find new meanings in the data that I have on my fingertips. Bring new insight to my company and become successful myself at the same time.

Enough about loves! Back to class descriptions.

1. R Programming : –

I have taken this class online exactly a year ago but it became harder for me after week 3 and I could not  finish the last project. So after one year this  “Study group for An Introduction to Statistical Learning with Applications in R” has reignited my interest in pursuing this course and towards Data Science Specialization. This is a 4 week course and starting on Aug 3rd, 2015, as mentioned before. It requires about 10 hours per week of your time. It uses a cool R self teaching tool called “Swirl” and a book. The course will cover the following material each week:

  • Week 1: Overview of R, R data types and objects, reading and writing data
  • Week 2: Control structures, functions, scoping rules, dates and times
  • Week 3: Loop functions, debugging tools
  • Week 4: Simulation, code profiling

2. Explore Statistics with R : –

I have joined this class today and as mentioned earlier it began on July 7th, 2015. This is an 8 week course and requires about 5 hours per week of time commitment.It uses the materials from here and here. This is a self paced course meaning all the 5 weeks materials were posted on July 7th. So you take your time to finish it by August 31st when some project is due. The main outline of this course is:

  • Week 1: Get to know R
  • Week 2: How to import and clean data in R
  • Week 3: Statistics under the hood: distributions and tests.
  • Week 4: Non-parametric tests
  • Week 5: Visit the research frontier

I can see some overlap here between the 2 courses and that is why I am thinking I will be able to finish Statistics course by Aug 31st even after starting late. At the meetups, I would also like to help others because I know how it feels when you are struggling and not sure of yourself whether you can do it or not and it is for you or not. I would be able to encourage people to keep learning and not give up. Fruits are right within your reach you just have to go little closer.

See you in next post!

Hi Fellow Readers,

I recently joined a study group called “Statistical Learning with Application in R” on the meetup.com and attended its first session yesterday in BrainTree’s office at 222 Merchandise Mart, Chicago.

This group is about those people who have some familiarity about R programming but lack the statistical depth or for those who know the statistics but are new to the R programming. Basically anyone having a motivation to learn something new and inclination to share their knowledge can join it. In future, meetup organizer may add Google hangout feature to the meetup so that remote people can also join in.

Statistical learning recently became hot topic with explosion of Big Data and Machine Learning. Moreover, the new job market for Data Scientist has given it much hype. But what is statistical learning? Basically it is the study of tools to help predict and infer from data. For example Linear Regression is used for predicting quantitative values such as salesman’s sales figure or individual’s salary. With the advent of computer technology in 1980s, it became feasible to calculate non-linear methods such as Classifications and Regression Trees. The subject of Machine Learning is essentially the study of statistics of non-linear methods.

Our group will be following the book “Introduction to Statistical Learning, 4th Edition” or ISL and the corresponding videos. This book is especially good for beginners.

From the book ISL itself, the basic premises of the book are:

  1. Many statistical learning methods are relevant and useful in a wide range of academic and non-academic disciplines, beyond just the statistical sciences.
  1. Statistical learning should not be viewed as a series of black boxes.
  1. While it is important to know what job is performed by each cog, it is not necessary to have the skills to construct the machine inside the box!
  1. We presume that the reader is interested in applying statistical learning methods to real-world problems.

This is enough for the first post on this topic. I am planning to write more as my jouRney progresses.

I am doing log shipping since SQL Server 2000. I did it with SQL Server 2005. But for the 4 years that I worked with SQL Server 2008 R2, I did not work with Log shipping. Nothing has changed in SQL server 2012. But to refresh my memory, here I am writing down simple steps for setting up log shipping.

  1. Make sure database is in Full recovery mode. In this case primary server is PriSQL\Prod01 and primary database is PriDB.
  2. Pre-initialize the database at secondary. It means take the full backup of PriDB and a transaction log backup of primary database SecDB and restore on secondary SecSQL\DR01 in Standby mode.
  3. Right click the primary database, go to properties and select “Enable this as a primary database in a log shipping configuration”.
  4. Select how frequently you are going to do log backups in “Backup Settings” button. Also provide the path where log backup goes. Some other settings on this page are set as follows:
    1. Delete files older than: 72 hours
    2. Alert if no backup occurs within: 2 hours
    3. Backup schedule: Every 15 minutes
    4. Backup Path: E:\SQLBackups\PriDB_log
    5. Job name: LSBackup_PriDB
    6. Backup compression: Use default server setting.
  5. Add the secondary server. In this case it is SecSQL\DR01. Secondary database is SecDB.
    1. Tab- Initialize secondary Database:
      • Select database is already initialized.
    2. Tab- Copy files:
      • Destination folder for copied file F:\SQLBackups\LogShip
      • Set 72 hours for Delete copied files.
      • Copy job: LSCopy_PriSQL\prod01_PriDB
      • Copy Schedule: Every 15 minutes.
    3. Tab- Restore Transaction Logs
      • Restore job: LSRestore_PriSQL\prod01_PriDB
      • Restore Schedule: Every 15 minutes
      • Delay restoring: 1 minute
      • Alert if no restore occurs: 2 hours

After much planning and cajoling, we finally were on our way to vacation to Canada.

Saturday, Jun 13th

We left home (Glenview, IL) at 7:30 AM (half hour later then planned) and arrived in Detroit, Michigan at 1:30 PM. Time moved ahead one hour. On the way, we stopped for 30 minutes for gas and food. We stayed at La Quinta Inn and Suites hotel and were very impressed by the high standards of this place. They offered free parking, breakfast, outdoor pool and a small gym.

We checked in and changed and left to see Belle Isle, a 36 minute drive from the hotel. We saw the oldest North American aquarium, fishing pier and a conservatory. We took lots of pictures; some of which I will share here. We then just drove to downtown Detroit and looked at the city’s architecture. Tigers (Detroit’s baseball team) was playing against Cleveland Indians at Comerica Park. We saw stadium was full and people cheering.

We at fishing pier  near Detroit, Michigan

We at fishing pier at Belle Island near Detroit, Michigan

Belle Island Conservatory

Belle Island Conservatory

For dinner we went to Chilli’s restaurant and afterwards we did some shopping at GAP and T.J Maxx stores.

We came back to hotel, changed and went to the fitness room and worked out for 30 minutes.

Sunday, June 14th

Everybody was refreshed after the comfortable night’s sleep and substantial breakfast in the morning. We resumed our driving at 9 AM and arrived at Niagara Falls, Ontario at 1:30 PM.

We stayed at Marriot Gateway on the Falls hotel. Our room was on the 26th floor with full view of the Niagara Horseshoe Falls, American Falls and the Bridal Veil Falls. We could see the New York side of the Niagara Falls Park also. Weather was cloudy so the usual fireworks at 10 PM was cancelled that night.

We booked a fully guided and narrated tour with Magnificent Tours and they took us to the 3 attractions; Skylon tower, Journey Behind the Falls and HornBlower Niagara Cruises. There were 12 people on the bus including us. We met a very nice family of 3 consisting of a grandson (age 16) and grandparents on this tour and most of the time we stayed together.

Skylon tower was 775 feet tall and gave us the crystal clear views of the city of Buffalo, NY and Toronto. We could see the falls from the top, Rainbow Bridge, Goat Island etc. We took lot of pictures.

View from the Skylon Tower

View from the Skylon Tower

Niagara Falls Behind the Scene tour was an exciting and humbling experience. Tunnels were built under the falls and there were different viewing windows where you can see the falls from under them and can experience the power of them.  It was like a hands on Falls museum with various historical facts about the place such as how those tunnels were built how deep was the fall in 1676 and every hundred years after that, showing how much corrosion and erosion has happened etc. Many times I feared that if this tunnel caved in today, there will be no sign of us.

Behind the Falls

Behind the Falls

Behind the scene view of the fall

Behind the scene view of the fall

Look! how much fun I am having.

Look! how much fun I am having.

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Observation deck at “Journey Behind the Falls”.

 

 

The 25 minute tour on the boat which took us close the Horseshoe fall was once in lifetime one.

Falls from the boat

Falls from the boat

We dined at the magnificent Milestones restaurant at hotel where we were staying.

We in the elevator mirror, en route to Milestones

We in the elevator mirror, en route to Milestones

Monday, June 15th

 

Two days ago, I attended a one day training session on the topic of “Dynamic Public Speaking” from the company called National Seminars Training by Rebecca Pace.

Following are some of my notes from that session. I like to take lots of notes so I can remember most of what is taught and presented. Life is so busy that if you do not take time to note down things, you will forget it very soon.

Though I am not a presenter, but there are many occasions where I have to speak such as explaining to my boss why we need to upgrade SQL server, show developer why something is cool and solves problem easier than the older method, also communicating with other vertical teams.

Rebecca started the session by asking participants, what they like to get from this session. She gave lots of tips and tricks to each one of us. This took 1 hour and it was immediately evident to me that this session will be interesting. I will be listing my notes in the forms of the tips and put them in various categories. I hope reader of this page will find them useful.

Fear and Nervousness:

  1. People who come to listen to you are either in agreement with you or will be providing resistance. It is better to know your audience beforehand and particularly useful is to know the type of resistance you will be getting.
  2. If you fear, you are going to black out, use index cards. Only jot down few words in bold and big fonts as a reminder cue for yourself.
  3. Another trick to calm yourself down during the presentation is to put 3 personal items at different location beforehand in the presentation room. So when you are nervous look in the direction of one of your item and it will give you connection to yourself and relax you.
  4. Remind yourself frequently that what you have to say is valuable to others.
  5. To make your presentation your own like a worn out pajama, you need to present it 6 times.
  6. When preparing, always target to the middle of the intelligence level of the group. That is why knowing your audience ahead of time is important.
  7. Audience want to know you as a person. So be yourself. Your accent, ethnicity and any other cultural difference make you more unique. Play it to your advantage. Be creative how you present yourself.

Audience Retention Problem:

  1. Do not try to force feed your audience. Lay low on information overload. As a speaker you worry that you don’t have enough content and you over prepare and then you want to give out all this information.
  2. Be conversational with your audience. Engaging and creating personal connection is more important than the content itself. Because an engaged audience is going to listen and understand your presentation.
  3. Leave the technical jargon for the slides or the handouts. While you speak use common words and simple English.
  4. Let your audience take notes, don’t give them everything on the slide and give them handouts toward the end of your presentation. By taking notes they will pay more attention and will retain more.

Tips on Presentation Slides:

  1. How many slides should you have in a power point? According to Rebecca, for an hour long presentation you should not have more than 5 slides. The reason being you want your audience to engage with you more that with the slides itself. Give additional material in handout. Use lots of colors and visuals. Remember less is more and a picture is worth a thousand words. Use less words.
  2. Have 8 facts about yourself on the last page. Preferably 4 of them regarding your professional\business and 4 business\personal details.
  3. If you are giving a 30 minute speech, about 4 minutes should be opening to hook the audience to your talk. And if 1 hour talk use 6 minutes. This is a rough guideline.
  4. If you are showing video clip, make sure it is not more than 3 minutes. It is very important that you explain what audience is going to see and after the clip engage to get the understanding of the audience.

Before Presenting:

  1. Presentation takes lot of energy from the speaker. You need to be rested and prepared. You have to project your voice to each of your audience. Bigger audience means you will spend more of your energy.
  2. Use coffee, or tea with peppermint oil drops, or Singer secret throat spray to dilate your larynx. You will have a richer and more powerful voice. Read book “Voice and the Actor”.
  3. If you have a habit of talking fast, then take a notebook on the podium or table and turn pages that will slow you down.
  4. Eat some complex carbohydrates before the presentation to low down your energy level if you are a fast speaker.
  5. Wear clothes (even undergarments), shoes, hair etc. which are comfortable and forget about them when presenting.
  6. Practice editing your face by keeping mirror in front of you when talking on phone. Smile more.
  7. Don’t shoot for 100% perfectness in you presentation. Shoot for 85% or greater. Be flexible and ready to roll if conditions changes.
  8. For practice, do it before mirror, record yourself, and notice your postures and gestures. Do you look confident? Fake it till you make it.
  9. Listen to great speakers like Martin Luther King, James Earl John. Listen to comedy shows. Another example is to notice the difference in Whitney Houston and Dolly Patron delivery of the same song (I love you).
  10. Do your homework.
    1. Whom I will be talking to?
    2. What are the circumstances?
    3. How long is my presentation going to be?
    4. Where will the presentation occur?
    5. Why I am doing this presentation?

During Presentation:

  1. Include a little ice breaker in the beginning, even if it is not related to the topic, just to get audience connect to each other.
  2. If some people are running late, ask audience if you should wait for them or begin.
  3. Speak with more animation that your normal voice. Create more volatility in your voice.
  4. During presentation, make eye contact with as many people as you can.
  5. Communication Pie
    1. 55% is what you see
    2. 38% is what you hear
    3. 7% is the language you choose (use spicy adjectives to grab attention and create mental pictures). For example: “This is what we achieved…..” versus “This is the red velvet of achievement…..”
  6. To create personal connection with your audience, use any of the following.
    1. Appropriate short personal story
    2. Invite people to comment and ask questions
    3. Mingle with your audience 5-10 minutes beforehand
    4. Be your authenticate self
  7. Improve your communication by listening during your presentation.
    1. Listen to what is being said, even if you don’t agree,
    2. Be quiet.
    3. Allow time for discussion.
    4. Keep an open mind.
    5. Don’t plan your response while the other person is talking.
    6. Minimize interruptions.
    7. Remain objective, don’t get emotionally involved.

At the end:

  1. End your presentation with succinct summary, or a quote or the benefit of the product or idea. End on a positive note and try to get the emotion from the audience.
  2. Some resources to continue your learning and development as a presenter
    1. Oriental trading toys for icebreaking or other games
    2. Hallmark blank quotation cards, write quote’s
    3. Book: Secrets of power Negotiating
    4. Book: Psychology of Achievement by Brian Tracy.
    5. Singer Secret throat spray.
    6. Spirit Gum to train you face muscles.

 

 

 

 

Speaker: George E. Vaillant, M.D.

Date Wednesday May 6th, 2015

Speaker was 82 year old, professor of Psychiatry, Harvard medical School. Study “Adult development” from 1928 to present.

Notes from the lecture:

It is basic human hunger to be recognized, heard and seen. Without which it we would not thrive as a human being. Sometimes our sensitivity about ourselves becomes too much in this complex world and we want to step back. People do crime, or drug, or suicide, or drown themselves in work etc; in order to cope with anxiety.

We are interdependent on each other to survive and thrive. War are seeking comfort, respect and safety. We are never satisfied and full. Hunger for more constantly grows. Mind is never at peace and we constantly juggle for balance. This is where mindful meditation can help us. Come out of orbiting thoughts and sense where your body is and keeping this awareness even as you are listening, talking or doing anything. This is like pausing constant buzzing of mind. This is remembrance and not thoughtlessness.

Being aware of what mind is doing, brings peace of mind. This is because now you feel safe and seeing things as it is and not some fabrication of your mind. With patience, tranquility and contentment comes. Take this to next level by engaging into interpersonal mindfulness conversation.

Six steps of Insight Dialogue:

  1. Pause
  2. Relax
  3. Open
  4. Trust Emergence
  5. Listen Deeply
  6. Speak the Truth

Taken together, these guidelines offer essential support for awakening amid the rich challenges of interpersonal encounter. Each guideline calls forth different qualities, and all of them are complimentary.

Pause calls forth mindfulness; Relax, tranquility and acceptance; Open, relational availability and spaciousness; Trust Emergence, flexibility and letting go; Listen Deeply, receptivity and attunement; Speak the Truth, Integrity and care.

In everyday life, the guidelines can be taken up as needed to support a kinder and more mindful way of relating. In meditation groups or retreats, these instructions are introduced individually in an atmosphere of dedicated practice and mutual commitment.